Love Languages...

 

“EL-EL”

         Did you know what is your Love Language? Love Language is things that makes our felt and appreciates someone we like or love. Those things make us like or love them even more. There are five (5) common love languages, Act of Service; Words of Affirmation; Quality Time; Gifts and lastly, Physical Touch. Do you want to find out what is your love languages? I will give some examples that can be your basis to identify your love language based on a given situations.

 

         *Act of Service

          It was your Foundation on your school, you planned to run in comfort room because you see your crush marrying someone in Wedding Booth. But sadly, there so many people along the way, that’s why you decided to go in opposite sex’s CR. There, you bumped into someone you know, and he noticed that you’re about to cry not minding entering their CR. On your shocked, he followed you, he not let you cry all alone and my gosh! He even played sad song and said, “wait. Okay, cry now.” And since you find it funny, you can’t cry now. The purest and innocent comforting, I think.

 

          You’re going to your friend’s house, and you forgot to bring umbrella. The sky was about to rain. Yes, just got lucky, the water started to pour, and you run as much as you can, but the drop started to become large, so you decided to stop. There you saw someone, offering to share his umbrella with you. Since there’s no one on that road and it became creepy, you agreed, and it was the longest awkward moment you’ve ever had but “kilig” also with good stranger. Like, a stranger offered me to share his umbrella?! FUDGEEE!!!

 

          My brother and I went to mall. And we rode a bus to get there. When we decided to get off on it, my kuya get off first. Then, when it’s my turn the bus suddenly move that almost caused me to be stumbled. So, my kuya got angry to the bus driver for being too hurry. Lowkey protective sibling, check!

 

           One day before your board exam, it’s one of your friend’s birthdays. Obviously, you didn’t come. Then, they send you a video containing their messages wishing you luck for your exam the next day. That’s September 24 , 2017, Sunday.

 

            When you don’t know what to do on your workloads then someone offered to help you. Saying that he knows how many workloads you have so he did it for you. Like, my gosh! You really do help me! Life Saver of the Day! Much appreciated!!

 

            When there is situation where in you’re not around. And someone tried to badmouth you jokingly and one of the people knows you well is there, stand for you and tried to defend your name. *Whispering: thank you*

    

           *Words of Affirmations

           When someone said to you that,” you’re one of the most positive people she could ever meet”. Hey friend, I know I’m not perfect but thank you for appreciating me.

 

           It was your board exam day, and you finished the first half of exam. The first thing you do is open your cellphone and there are 2 new messages. The first message said, “Good luck, child. Don’t be so nervous. You can do it. Always pray. Love you!” The second one said, “Hi, be good luck on your exam. Just remember that we are proud of you no matter what.” And there, your heart melted. The nervous you’ve been hiding for hours started to show and you’ve cried on CR because you’re touched to those messages! The first message is from your mom and the second one is from your friend.

 

           Result Day of your Board Exam, you are feeling lazy because any time the result may come. And you know, you didn’t do well on the exam day. But still, it’s Monday so you need to go to your work. You tried to avoid the topic about it. Then, after lunch, your co-teacher rush coming to your room telling you that the result came out because one of your friends texted you this, “hey, girl! Reactivate your facebook. You passed the Exam! Congratulations!!” And so, you decided to open my messenger and so many messages congratulating you. Days before the result posted, you already said to your friends that you can’t dare to look on the result coz it will just disappointment you. You decided also to deactivate your facebook because you will be just envying the others that passed the exam. This is one of the sweetest and purest messages you’ve ever received!

 

           When you’ve decided to start loving yourself and improve yourself just for you. Then one of your friends said this, “No, you’re beautiful. And I really admire your confidence level especially now and how lighthearted you are.” You boosted my confidence! Love you, girl!

 

           When your friend randomly sent you this quote, “never stop being a good people because of bad one” and said, “you know whenever I read this you are the first person that comes to my mind.” Like, really?!

 

           You and your friend buy street foods then suddenly your friend called you saying, “hey! Come here, listen to the song.” So, you did and you heard your favorite song- Only Hope. “Aw! How did you know?” you asked, “you said it. I remember”, he said. Omg! Small things matter.

 

          *Gifts

 

           When someone tried to give you gift in front of your class. Announcing it like a proposal. It made you so embarrassed but at the same time, “kilig’ of course! And he even put it on your arm. Shocks! What is this ring?! Joke! HAHAHAHA But still, unforgettable one. Joke! THIS IS HYPHOTETICAL!!!

 

            You don’t like too many gifts. Instead, you Love to give gifts if you can. But when someone really gave, you appreciated it so much. That’s too precious to handle!!

 

            I cried the whole night because I can’t upload my project online for not having laptop. The next day, my parents go somewhere. And when they got home, they bought me laptop so that I will never cry anymore. I’m blessed for having a like them parents!

 

            And that’s it. If you’re asking why it doesn’t have “Quality Time” and “Physical Touch”, it because I didn’t experience it yet. Joke! It’s because it’s already 2:38 in the morning and my eyes can’t handled it anymore. So, I ended up here! Hope you get some tips. And if you’re hoping for PART 2 of this, just don’t forget to LIKE, FOLLOW and Reacts to this. LOLS

 

WARNING: THIS CONTAINS HYPOTHETICAL SITUATIONS. NO LIVING THINGS HARMED. ONLY ME. JOKE AGAIN. This purely FICTIONAL. *Sarcastically Speaking*

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“Acknowledge Your Emotions”

 

                    I said that I really love the book of Mitch Albom, Tuesdays With Morrie. But, I forgot one lesson of Morrie that we should acknowledge what we feel, even if it’s good or bad emotions. And that is okay. I forgot that. I forgot that we are all just human. We can’t control our feelings.

 

                   I grew up on an extended and not so perfect family. And I don’t know, I think one of my signature traits is being full of positive thoughts towards everything around me. I believe that all the people in world always have their good sides. Even though he can be the meanest person you’ve ever known, I really believe that he has his good side… we just must wait for it. But things really won’t be easy on this called - LIFE. How it possible that this four-letter-words are not easy to survive? Morrie’s right. School teaches us wrong that the world is beautiful. Because no, it’s not. Life is messy. World is complicated. Life doesn’t want my signature trait to always appear anytime I want. I don’t like the feeling that I always feel negative in all the things around me. I feel like I messed up. I feel like everything is falling apart. It breaks me. It hurts me. It made me cry. I hate it. I feel like this is not me anymore. That is not the usual me. I know I’m one of those most understanding people you could ever know. But suddenly, I feel like I’m changing. This is strange.

 

                      It turns out that this strange feeling is not strange, it is called normal or natural to human like me. Maybe, I’m too cheerful that I get blinded on my own beliefs. And now, everything becomes clearer. I guess, I’m wrong. No, I’m definitely wrong. The world is messy and so life, and if I keep this toxic positivity that I had, I will get swayed in my journey. There I remember, what Morrie said, that we should acknowledge every emotion we will feel. Not because you feel sad doesn’t mean you shouldn’t feel it. Emotions are meant to be felt and so pain. Don’t worry it will not last forever. Remember? There are lots of emotions in the world you will feel it all. And oh, lastly, don’t forget that we’re supposed to change for our own goods.

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“CONFESSION”

It wasn’t a love at first sight thingy; Or famous meets unpopular story. It’s just a cliché unrequited kind of love that will never be known by the person I love.

 

                       It doesn’t need to be loud. It doesn’t need to be proud. It doesn’t need to be mutual. It doesn’t always about just feelings. When you finally, hit by this… you can’t turn it back and go to the start easily. Four-letter-word but can be magical as Fairy God Mother in Fairytales. I swallow what I’ve said when this thing hit me. Like, I break all my walls because I started to like someone whose out of my league.

                        I said, I will never ever let him know about it. I can’t imagine myself confessing to others how I feel about them. I’m too coward to do it. I’m too scared of rejections even though, I expected it from the start. I feel like I’m too weak to hear it loud and clear from him. But some realizations sudden changed my mind. I mean, why not? I did tell him! Finally, well in my “me” way of confessing. Sincere and true but not loud and proud. Don’t get me wrong, I want to be proud of me being in love. But I will just do that if it’s a mutual feelings. And since it’s not, low key confession suits this.

                       The goal is for him to know what I felt. And I guess, I did it or we did it? Anyway it doesn’t matter, it’s enough that he already knew, and I didn’t get any answer on it. Considered it as it’s “no”, self. You become brave! Proud of you, my love. You can freely forget about him, slowly and surely. You don’t need to rush. You already said what you felt, that’s all that matter.